Thursday, April 13, 2017

The Most Important Life Skills Any Self-Respecting Man Should Possess

What does it mean to be a man? Defining manhood is such a hard thing to do. While each man is different and unique, there are some important life skills every guy should master in his life. Here are the most essential among them.

How Many Of These Important Life Skills Have You Mastered?

Don’t worry if you haven’t managed to possess them all yet. Improving ourselves is a work in progress, after all.

Know how to discern a good wine or whiskey.

No self-respecting man can go without knowing the basics of booze. Beer is ok, cocktails are, well, kinda girly, but when it comes to a real man, you need to know your wine and/or whiskey. Be the guy who does the tasting at the restaurant and says “no, this wine isn’t up to our standards”.

Know how to tie a tie and roll up his shirt sleeves neatly.

Even those who don’t need to wear a tie and suit every day need to know how to tie one and be able to roll up their shirt sleeves correctly. You never know when you might need to suit up and look sharp. It’s a matter of emergency – think of it like the 911 of your style.

Know how to do a decent handshake.

If you have ever extended your hand to a person you just met, only to have them respond with a hand like a dead fish, you will know why a good handshake matters. A firm, but not too overbearing, handshake improves the quality of an interaction, getting across a message of intimacy and trust without even a word spoken.

Have a hobby you excel at.

It only makes a small difference what kind of hobby you choose. What matters is that you excel at it. Is it fishing? Flying a plane? Collecting butterflies? Make yourself a pro at your hobby. Being passionate about a pastime activity doesn’t just fill you with contentment and confidence; it also makes you more versatile and interesting.

Know how to cook to impress.

Spaghetti or fries were ok for the teenage you, but you need to move past the boiling egg phase and be able to whip up a culinary miracle by the time you hit your 30s. You won’t believe how much ladies appreciate a guy who can get creative in the kitchen. The way to a woman’s heart does pass through her stomach, after all.

Speak at least one foreign language.

Speaking a foreign language is not just about grammar rules and learning vocabulary by heart. It is also a way to widen your horizons to a whole new civilization and way of thinking. Did we mention how sophisticated it makes you look too?

Be able to show a woman a good time.

Last but not least, it takes a real man to make a woman have fun. Being able to show a lady a good time is not an easy thing. If you can do it, it means that you possess a combination of characteristics and substantial experience to tell what a woman needs to be happy and to be able to provide it. Good for you.

The more boxes on the list you tick, the more irresistible you’ll be to women. So, if there’s a skill you can improve on, why not make the effort?

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Monday, April 10, 2017

AnastasiaDate Reveals: Relationship Mistakes You Must Avoid Like The Plague

Despite our best efforts to be perfect partners, every now and then we slip up and make our partner unhappy or make a fool of ourselves or even put our whole relationship on the line. Nobody is perfect, but there are small errors and then there are huge relationship mistakes – which ones are you making? AnastasiaDate explains why they are important and what to do to fix things.

AnastasiaDate: These Are The Biggest Relationship Mistakes You Can Make

Giving too much emphasis on the wrong things, communication breakdowns, wrong assumptions and the desire to change your partner can be devastating to your relationship. But it’s best that we examine them more closely.

Mistake number 1: expecting to have a relationship taken out of a soap opera. If you think life is a soap opera, it’s no wonder you’re facing relationship troubles. People in soap operas live a glamorous life where they can be successful professionals, partners who are always in the mood (and physical state) to jump into bed with their other half, friends who are always available for each other, and parents who have perfect control over their children. Well, life doesn’t work this way, as you may have noticed. So, it’s ok to not always be in the mood to fool around, it’s perfectly fine if your girlfriend needs some time to see her neglected friends, and it is impossible to be perfect at everything at the same time. Prioritize and be understanding of yourself and your partner.

Mistake number 2: You think she knows what you don’t say and that you know what she wants to say before she does. This is mainly the trap that people in long-term relationships fall into. It’s what happens when you think you know your partner so well that you can read their minds without them saying a word. And then, when they actually speak you don’t bother to listen, thinking you already know what’s on their mind. It is very probable that she is doing the same. As a result, you both think what you want to think and there is no real communication between you. Practically, this means that your arguments are more frequent and less productive as time goes by, for the simple reason that unless you truly open your ears to what she is saying and stop assuming you know, there is no way you can ever make any kind of improvement in your relationship.

Mistake number 3: You’re in love with who you want her to be, not who she is. Sounds bad, doesn’t it? That’s because it is bad. Sometimes we are so desperate to fall in love with someone, or we get so blinded by infatuation, that we see the potential in a partner, but don’t appreciate who they really are. Some people can’t get over their Pygmalion stage, where they are in love with their own creation and not what’s already there. To avoid making this huge relationship mistake, know your standards and preferences and don’t be afraid to go after a woman who already ticks these boxes for who she is, not what you’d like her to be.

Mistake number 4: Too many people involved. If you’re the sociable type, you may have a large circle of people around you on whom you confide and whose advice and opinions you take into account. There is nothing wrong with that, as long as you remember that in relationships “3 is a crowd” and the leading characters in your personal life film are just you and her. Taking people’s opinions too seriously and caring too much about what others think of you and your relationship can be a very serious mistake, as you can never really tell the kind of agenda others may have.

On AnastasiaDate we’re not into judging, we’re sure there must be many things you are doing right. But if you’re making one or more of these huge relationship mistakes, you can always make changes and be more satisfied with your love life.

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