Wednesday, April 13, 2016

7 Common Courtesies to Learn when Dating a Russian Lady

Common courtesies and etiquette are essential when visiting a foreign land or new acquaintances. In the same way offering your hand for a handshake in the west is a common courtesy extended to someone you just met. If you are thinking of dating a Russian lady, it is important that you learn some common courtesies from her culture to ensure that your relationship is off to a good start.

Never shake hands over a threshold

Upon arriving in your Russian girlfriend’s home, you might be met by her parents or a member of the family at the door. Now, usually it’s automatic that you offer your hand in handshake, but in Russia, wait to be fully inside before offering a handshake. Russians believe this is bad luck and you lose nothing if you adhere to this belief.

Gifts are a must when visiting someone’s home

It is common courtesy in Russia to bring your host a small token for their trouble. It might not be any trouble for them and you might actually have been invited, but nonetheless, it is expected that you have a little something for your host, in this case, your Russian lady, and her family. A nice bottle of wine, some chocolates and flowers should be sufficient. Just make sure the number of flowers in the bouquet is odd.

Take off your shoes when entering the threshold of a Russian home.

As you enter a Russian home, you are expected to take off your shoes. This is more for hygiene as the streets in Russia can be a bit dirty and of course, no one wants their home dirtied. This is a heads up to make sure you wear fresh socks with no holes and to apply foot deodorant if you suffer from certain conditions of the foot.

Keep the glass half full

Keep your glass half full if you are not ready for more alcoholic drinks. When dating a Russian lady, remember that Russians are known to be heavy drinkers and can imbibe up to 18 liters annually. If you are not the alcohol chugging type, it is better you keep your glass half full as an unspoken signal that you are not ready for another round.

If someone raises a toast, be sure to toast

Russians love toasts especially at parties. So if you are thinking of formally dating a Russian lady, you will be attending quite a few of said parties. And when someone raises a toast, if you didn’t quite get what they said, just go with it, smile and raise your glass. Take your cue from your beautiful date and you can’t go wrong

Babushki is always right. Even when she’s wrong, she’s still right.

Sound familiar? Yes, Babushki, or the grandma’s of Russia, are not to be argued with. First of all, they are ladies, and secondly, they are held at a position of respect and power due to the wisdom of their years. It is futile to argue with them, especially when you are trying to date their granddaughter. Just smile and nod and do things their way. Plus, your Russian lovely might actually be impressed on the respect you give her nana.

If you need to go back, look into the mirror before you leave.

If you need to go back inside the house for your phone or your hat, make sure you look in the mirror before you leave the house. This is something that has been done for generations and is an honored tradition/superstition. To make sure you don’t offend your host family, especially nana Babushki, make sure you look in the mirror before you leave. Don’t worry, most Russian homes have a mirror near the door for this particular use.



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4 Things to Get Used to when Dating a Hungarian Girl

Hungary is a country with quite the local customs and some of the norms here may seem strange and even downright weird. But, if you plan on dating a Hungarian girl, you should get used to these things and eventually develop a taste for them, who knows, you might even find them endearing soon after. Now there are a lot of these quaint little quirks but we’ll name a few of the most common just to help you get started.

The Weather and the Front

If out of the blue, your Hungarian girlfriend is in a bad mood, chances are she blames the front for it. Hungarians often blame the front for their bad mood and headaches even. And this “front” they talk about is the weather front. These people are often unhappy about the weather may it be hot or cold. If it’s hot they complain about it being too hot. If it’s cold, well, they complain it’s too cold. And they don’t necessarily like rain either. So if your Hungarian date is a bit out of sorts and a bit irritable, you know who to blame. Blame the weather and it’s front.

Hot Sauce and Sour Cream Sauce

If the western world has ketchup, mayo, pickles and mustard as their staple condiments, the Hungarians have their own too. So if you’re dating a Hungarian girl, better get used to the staple condiments of Hungary. Here they have a hot chili sauce called Erős Pista that they practically have with any and every meal. Hungarians love their spice and you will probably see this condiment on most tables when you eat out. They also have a certain fixation with a sour cream sauce called tejföl. Every dish is either swimming or smothered in this and when in Budapest, you better learn to love this as well.

ID Carding

In the west, carding is usually reserved for getting into bars or buying cigarettes and booze. But in Hungary, most particularly in Budapest, police can randomly come up to you and ask for your ID. This is actually to the extent of people being brought in simply for not having their IDs with them. It’s much like a really, really large university where the guards will call you out for not having your ID. So just to be on the safe side, make sure you have an ID or some sort of identification document with you at all times.

Queues and Bus Tickets

In a civilized society, standing in line to wait your turn is a norm and is expected. But if you are with a Hungarian girl going around the city, you might be surprised if she pulls some sneaky moves to get closer to the front of the queue. This is perfectly normal in this society though of course it is almost an art as you might get into a scuffle if you are caught red-handed.  This seems to be the case with certain bus routes as well. People tend to choose routes with less inspectors and in case someone who looks suspiciously like an inspector comes in, they sure know how to make a speedy, inconspicuous exit.

Well, as with any nation or culture, it is better if you try to blend in. There is a saying when in Rome, do as the Romans. So when dating a Hungarian girl, try your

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4 Facts to Know when Dating a Russian Lady

Facts About Dating a Russian LadyRussian women are no doubt one of the most beautiful races in the world and I wouldn’t blame you if you opt to be with one. But then again, the Russian culture and the West can sometimes be different as day and night. So how to you deal? Here are a few facts that are good to know about Russian culture and its people that will help you when you start dating a Russian lady.

Russians Love Dill

They love dill and love it to a fault. This is one important fact you should know before dating a Russian lady. She might not say it out loud but this nation has a particular fixation with this herb. If you are thinking of dating and eventually marrying your Russian girl, you had better learn to love dill. Besides, showing that you like this flavor from home, might actually impress her.

Russians Love Plastic Bags

Russians in general never really throw away plastic bags from their last grocery trip because they have this notion where you can never really tell when you would need one. This is also evident with the collection of shops that sell specialty plastic bags of different styles, patters and even brands. So there is the biggest possibility that your Russian girlfriend will have a certain fixation with plastic bags but it wouldn’t hurt if you do get her a designer handbag as a gift.

Russians Love to Dress Up

Yes, they love dressing up, even just for a casual stroll down the street. And when we say dressing up, we mean the works: high heels, full make up and nice attire. And since this is the case, when you are thinking of dating a Russian lady, you had better gear up and amp up your game. After all, if you want to impress your Russian date, it just is fair for you to look your best when she looks spic and span.

Russians Love to Drink

This may not come as a surprise with the nation that came up with the vodka. It is said that Russians can consume up to 18L of alcoholic beverages in a year. This being said, be prepared to drink as your Russian girl might actually be a heavier drinker than you. A small piece of trivia, Vodka is actually said to have been derived from the term “voda” which means water.

Russian Clubs Love the Beautiful and the Wealthy

In Russia, there is this thing called feiskontrol. Basically feiskontrol is where only the most beautiful and the wealthiest are let in to clubs making the club more popular because of this. So what happens is you have to stand outside the club and wait to be judged if you’re hot enough to get in. So if you are planning to get you and your Russian girl into one of the hottest and happening clubs, you have got to get your game face on and dress to impress like it’s going to be a pageant.

And just one bonus trivia that’s nice to know: Russia’s total surface area is larger by 400 thousand square kilometers than Pluto at 17 million sqKm.

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