Sunday, December 13, 2015

5 Mistakes to Never Make When Dating a Russian Lady Online

Dating a Russian Lady OnlineDating a Russian lady online is a very exciting venture. It could be a whole new chapter to your dating life because it’s different and Russian ladies are very special. Successfully dating Russian ladies online doesn’t require a lot of hard work too. Effort is required, of course, but it won’t feel like hard work if you’re truly interested in one Russian lady as your actions will feel natural. Among all that you do, however, there are a few mistakes that you absolutely should put in all effort to avoid. We’ve compiled 5 of them here:

Mistake #1: Showing off your financial capability

Lavish gifts and frequent gift giving does show that you can, indeed, support her in the long run but it doesn’t communicate your sincere intentions when dating a Russian lady online. It’s as if you’re dangling your wealth as bait. It’ll make her think that you don’t value you her a person and that you’re trying to buy her affections. It’s the same idea when you show off your financial capability in your profile – it doesn’t attract the right kind of Russian lady. Not all Russian ladies are attracted to wealth.

Mistake #2: Falling in love with an idea

Because most of your communication will happen virtually when dating a Russian lady online, it’s easy for your imagination to run wild and paint itself an image of how it interprets the lady you’re corresponding with. Don’t let your imagination run wild and fall for an idea. Stick to reality and really put in the effort of getting to know the person.

Mistake #3: Making quick decisions

This has a bit of a connection with the second mistake we mentioned. When you’ve fallen in love with an idea, it’s easy to make quick decisions about visiting her, sending her money or, worse, marrying her even if you haven’t met her yet. It’s decisions like this that will make you regret life, in general, so carefully look at where you’re walking and where you’re heading to. You might just end up lost.

Mistake #4: You don’t show your interest in her culture

Is it important to show interest in a Russian lady’s culture when dating online? Yes, it’s a paramount factor for her to determine your future together. Russian people are very proud of their culture and heritage so getting to know what these are is like getting to know a Russian person’s essence.

Mistake #5: You’re looking for a trophy wife or girlfriend

A trophy wife or a girlfriend is just someone who’s beautiful enough to be displayed to the people that surround you. Little to no emotional attachment is involved in this kind of relationship. If you’re looking for someone like this, you might just find her. You’ll be happy for a few months but trust us when we say that this kind of relationship will not work out in the long run nor will it be healthy. It’ll be toxic when no real love is involved.

These mistakes are easy enough to avoid if, again like what we mentioned earlier, you’re sincere in your intentions and if you truly like the person you’re corresponding with. See who you have real chemistry with and do the work in getting to know that person.

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5 Must-Know Tips to Letter Writing When Dating Online

when dating onlineThere are no set formulas when dating online but there are ideal ways on how you could go about your dating. Let’s talk about this in the aspect of letter writing. Most people don’t really know how to approach this because: A. they don’t have much experience and B. they have no clue about ideal situations and specific outcomes. With that said, we thought we’d do most of you a favor by revealing our 5 must-know tips to letter writing when dating online.

Tip #1: How many resumes do you send out?

What do resumes have to do with online dating? Nothing, really, but answer the question nonetheless: how many resumes do you send out before you get a job offer? We ask this because the same approach should be applied when writing a letter to women you’re interested in online. We’re going to give you a specific number later on. For now, really think about the concept and internalize it. This doesn’t mean that you have to send one letter every hour until someone replies. The concept just wants to emphasize that you need to be open to communicating to a lot of women in order to have better chances of getting replies.

Tip #2: Personalized – it’s way better

Trash those generic letters, please. Any lady who knows her way around the internet can spot a generic letter from a mile away. This means that you actually need to put in effort int reading her profile – know what her interests are and know who she’s looking for (and, of course, if you meet the criteria). If you’re genuinely interested, write her a letter based on what you read on her profile.

Tip #3: Sincerity and Simplicity

A letter can sometimes make you feel like you have to put your best foot forward. Ironically, first letters end up looking like resumes because men feel the need to include every achievement they’ve had since kindergarten. It’s an exaggeration but please know that you don’t need to color your first letter, or any letter, up like a Picasso painting. Be sincere, make it simple and go back to #2 tip.

Tip #4: 10 Letters a Day

Now here’s a specific number – 10. Replies are not guaranteed but when replies do come in, you’ll be able to manage responding in a timely manner. 20 is too much in one day because there’s a chance that you might get swamped with replies that you wouldn’t know where to begin. 10 is a good round number to start with and it won’t take you a lot of time to go through ten profiles and make personalized letters from them.

Tip #5: Filter

Nope, it’s not just Instagram that has filters. You should have your own filters when those replies come in. After a reply, the most likely event to happen next is a live chat. This is when you know if you have chemistry or compatibility with a woman when dating online. If you don’t, let her know in a nice way and then move on to the next. This is what we mean when we say filters. You don’t need to go to the next step with a woman if she doesn’t meet your requirements and vice versa (if you don’t meet her requirements).

That’s it for our 5 tips! We hope you’ve learned something and perhaps the most important take away from this is to be genuine and sincere with your letters.

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5 Tips on Sending Money to Your Dream Russian Woman

dream russian womanIn the topic of sending money to your dream Russian woman, should you do it or shouldn’t you? Aside from other debatable topics in dating Russian women, the topic of financial support has always been one that’s controversial. Is it ideal to send money or is it detrimental to the relationship in the long run? A lot of men also have the same questions as you do so we thought that we might do a bit of research on this topic and we came across 5 tips to help you decide if sending money is indeed a good idea or a bad one.

Before that, let’s talk about support. We define support as sending a certain amount of money every month as sort of an allowance. Now, let’s go to the tips.

Tip #1: Ask yourself a few questions first

First off, if your considering to send financial support, the main thing that you should be thinking of is the status of your relationship. Is your relationship mature enough or is it at the right stage for such an serious commitment? You should also be asking yourself if you’re comfortable doing so on a regular basis. Will your financial status allow it? And, perhaps, the most important question that you should be asking is: Am I allowing myself to be taken advantage of?

Tip #2: Type of woman

If your dream Russian woman asked for a regular allowance, you really have to consider this as a red flag because no respectable woman would ask for an allowance from someone they just met over the internet. Even if you’ve already met in person a few times, it’s still not very tasteful for a woman to ask for regular financial support from someone she’s in a relationship with unless it is her husband.

Tip #3: The future is uncertain

Think about this scenario: you decided on giving in to your desire to support her thinking that it would make the relationship stronger. Maybe it did but what if she just suddenly disappeared from the face of the earth? There are scenarios, several in fact, where someone’s dream Russian woman just didn’t reply or hasn’t gone online for a long time until she disappeared. It’s scenarios like this that make giving regular financial support a big risk.

Tip #4: Show support in little things

We’re not saying that you shouldn’t send anything at all. It is actually a good idea to show your support in smaller ways like giving of gits, flowers and maybe the occasional paying of one or two bills but not on a regular basis. If you want to spoil your dream Russian woman, do so in this manner.

Tip #5: Wait for marriage

The best thing that you can do is to wait until you’re married before giving regular financial support. It is, after all, your duty as a husband to be the provider of the family but other than that, it would be ill-advised to send her money as an allowance.

Sending your dream Russian woman money will show that you are capable of supporting her, a trait often valued in the Russian culture, but it’s also a big risk on your part. The decision is up to you but remember that you can still show your financial capability in different ways that will not make you susceptible to being taken advantage of.


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