Tuesday, July 15, 2014

The “After the first Date” Call in Europe

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Have you ever seen the movie “He’s Just Not that In to You”? Though a Hollywood film, it gives the outsider a pretty good idea about how the dating style and culture is in America. There are all these unwritten rules about how a guy must text/call at least 3 days after the first date. There’s also a 5-date rule where the woman doesn’t put out until the fifth date. There are a lot of unwritten but expected rules that circulate in the US dating scene.

Now, let’s move on to Europe where dating is more straightforward. The question that we’re going to answer today is: When is it appropriate to call or text after having your first date (may it be virtual or not)?

The Answer Explained

The best answer is actually: WHENEVER. Are you shocked at all? Let us elaborate and break it down for you in terms of dating European women online and offline.

After Your First Virtual Date

So you met a nice European woman online and you’ve already had your very first on-cam date experience with her. It was fantastic and you imagine that you’re going to have an even better time as soon as you have your first offline date when you come for a visit.

In your case, it’s always a good idea to communicate earlier. Call or send a message the day after. That will not matter to the European woman you had such a good time with. In fact, your situation is special (since it’s online) because you cannot see each other in person. You have to fill that void with constant and regular communication. Keep that up until it’s time for you to fly over there and sweep her off her feet.

After Your First Offline Date

When we talk about dating “offline” it just means the usual date setting -- boy or girl asks the other out, they meet at a café or restaurant, have a good time and maybe share a good night kiss.

The fact is, in Europe, when a man contacts a woman the day after their first date, it means that he is really interested. European women are used to men contacting them on a daily basis. The more he reaches out to you, the more interested he is. Get the picture?

This would be viewed as “stalker-ish” in the US but in Europe it is normal. The man doesn’t have to wait a few days until he gives the girl a call – as mentioned, it’s more straightforward, no more mind games.

The European Dating Style Rocks

Now, aren’t you just glad you read this article? The dating style in Europe is a little different but there are no games to it which makes it enjoyable for both parties – not just the man and not just the woman.

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